Facebook
Dating: from 1st Date to Soulmate
By
Dr. Paulette Sherman
Genre:
Relationships, Mind/Body/Spirit
About the
Book
Dr.
Sherman says, “Facebook Dating’s mission dovetails with mine, to help singles
date mindfully, with consideration. Singles can then attract their best match
joyfully, peacefully and authentically, creating a heart-centered relationship.
Facebook Dating enables singles to mine for meaningful matches based on common
points of interest, shared groups, events and mutual friends. It’s an
intentional community that moves daters beyond swiping for hookups to forging
sustainable relationships, encouraging meaningful conduct in an already safe
space to connect with family and friends on a daily basis across the lifespan. Facebook will use its extensive personal data
to create meaningful matches. They’ve
put tools in place to help users eliminate common annoyances. They have a
pause button to avoid dating burnout, conversation starters, ways to avoid
harassment and online strategies to deal with an ex. Singles can date mutual
friends and singles at shared events and groups of interest. “
This book
helps singles navigate dating stages & issues, while learning about
themselves. Paulette teaches that once singles are calm, positive,
present, self-reflective and non-judgmental the ups and downs of dating won’t
deter them. They become aware of underlying factors that influence their
choices and observe their feelings to see if they want to shift them. They reflect on their self-esteem, boundaries,
honesty, relationship patterns and standards. Mindfulness makes dating
painless, because all suffering comes from attachment to an outcome. When you accept the present moment you enjoy
planned and unplanned outcomes. Sherman created over 20 mindfulness practices
around dating issues like anxiety, trust, rejection, breakups, fear of
judgment, jealousy, dating multiple people, self-love, a fear of commitment,
the need to please, dealing with bad dates, knowing when to get physical, when
to become exclusive, when to move-in, get engaged and more. This practice
helps singles use consideration over impulse & Facebook Dating puts singles
together to jumpstart this adventure.
My Review
Facebook Dating is exactly what you think it’s about. Facebook Dating! It’s filled with tips and tricks, as well as positive dating mantras. The dating guide discusses everything from how to best set up your dating profile to being emotionally ready for a relationship.
I found the book very well-written and thoughtfully planned out. Each chapter was carefully organized with pointers. The author did a good job of guiding you through the book and had a realistic view of online dating. She discussed healthy and unhealthy relationships, as well as how to preserve your privacy if your match seems off.
I would recommend this guide for anyone needing tips or tricks to online dating or wanting to explore Facebook’s dating options. I appreciate also that the author discusses safety options. Also, mentioning consent in one chapter which is a very important point when dating.
About the
Author
Dr.
Paulette Kouffman Sherman is a licensed psychologist, Relationship expert,
dating coach and author of, Dating from the Inside Out, published by Atria
Books and 21 others. Her books are published in 6 languages & won 14
awards. She has a private psychotherapy practice in Manhattan and does
international phone coaching on relationships.
Sherman has twenty years of experience as a psychotherapist, was an
adjunct professor at two universities and pens a monthly Relationship column at
Eligible Magazine. An expert on television including Channel 11, Fox 5, the CBS
Early Show & the AM Northwest Early Show and a radio guest on the Curtis
Sliwa show, NPR’s Cityscape, Unity Radio’s ‘The Soul-Directed Life, Pathways
and others, her advice has been quoted in MSN.com, USA Weekend, NY Post,
Newsweek, Lifetime.com, More, Match.com, Vogue, Teen Vogue, Foxnews.com, NY
Daily News, Fox Business, Crains, Better Homes & Gardens, Cosmopolitan,
Glamour, Forbes, Woman’s Day, Metro newspapers, P&G Everyday, Men’s Health,
Men’s Fitness, Muscle and Fitness, Marie Claire, Allure, Seventeen, Men’s
Fitness, Bustle, Woman’s Day, Web MD, Everyday Health, Elle, Psychology Today,
Complete Woman magazine, Aaptiv, Well & Good, Fast Company, The Knot,
WeddingWire, Best Life, Guideposts, Refinery29, JDate, Spirituality and Health,
Mind Body Green, Om Times, Spirit and Destiny, Martha Stewart Weddings, Brides,
Business Insider, New York Magazine, Redbook, Reader’s Digest, The London
Times, Oprah Magazine, the Huffington Post and the NY Times. Dr. Sherman
lives in NY with her husband of 12 years and their two children. Visit her
website at www.DrPauletteSherman.com
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